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Christina Perri Was Right, I *Am* Only Human.
They say that we are “only flesh,” as though flesh is so easy to permeate and can’t be broken. If we are only tiny specks of dust in the...
Afiya John
Jan 271 min read


Everything Gonna Be, Okay?! (My Master's Thesis!)
After three of the longest years of my natural born life, I am finally done with grad school! It took a lot to get here, from mental...
Afiya John
Jan 133 min read


A Tribute to Yusef O. Shabazz.
The last time I saw my Uncle Shabazz was in April, I think. He greeted me with his signature “Niece!” followed by our fist bump. Who knew...
Afiya John
Dec 9, 20235 min read


Untitled (2023)
This year has hit me with some real life shit. I’ve had lots of realizations, breakthroughs, tears, grief, more tears, and more grief. I...
Afiya John
Dec 8, 20232 min read


We Need To Talk About "Checking On Our 'Strong' Friends."
Trigger Warning: This blog post mentions suicide, depression, and anxiety. Please proceed with caution, and take care of yourselves. -...
Afiya John
Feb 2, 20224 min read


A Love Letter to Insecure.
"I had to believe that it would work out, for it to work out." - Issa Dee. I know there are other people out there like me - ones who...
Afiya John
Dec 27, 20215 min read


Thank You, Megan! I Loveeee Youuu!
^ To the tune of Doja Cat at the end of “Get Into It (Yuh).” Below is my personal statement that I wrote to get in to my current Grad...
Afiya John
Sep 10, 20215 min read


I’m Back and I’m Better. For Real This Time.
we can’t keep meeting like this, I know. it has been… a while. a journey. a time. i’ve been working, crying, grieving, eating, napping,...
Afiya John
Sep 10, 20211 min read


Where In The World Is Afiya J.?
“Where are you, Afiya?” My therapist asks me as I coyly pick at a scab on my arm. I look out of the window next to me, as though the...
Afiya John
Dec 17, 20202 min read


Another Year Older, Another Year Wiser...
Yes, I took that line from the "All Grown Up" theme song. I’m 24 now, guys! Where the HELL did the time go??? It feels like just the...
Afiya John
Jun 22, 20205 min read


The One Where I Talk About Depression.
"Depression" (to the tune of Kendrick Lamar's "Complexion") Depression (two-step) Depression don't mean a thing (it's a Zulu love) Ooh...
Afiya John
May 13, 20204 min read


8 Reasons to Quit Your Blog: A Drama Queen's Guide to Success.
It's been a while... but I'm back. This post was inspired by one of my favorite TV shows, Bojack Horseman, specifically the episode "The...
Afiya John
Mar 3, 20207 min read


For Colored Girls Who Are Tired of People's Shit.
“To be black and conscious in America is to be in a constant state of rage.” - James Baldwin I can’t be the only one who logs on to...
Afiya John
Aug 8, 20183 min read
A Series Of Unfortunate Events
The following chronology of stories are true, personal and condensed accounts of a series of unfortunate events called My Love Life. I,...
Afiya John
Jul 24, 20186 min read
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